Last night I was invited to go for a midnight drive with one of my mates.
Not a 'makin' mayhem' type of drive where the passengers are up to no good - this was a 'need to get out of the house and the situation I'm in drive' where we go to a location and relax; no rough housing at all.
Luckily for me (though I didn't know this at the time) I had Uni in the morning, it was cold and to be honest, I really didn't want to go. So I declined.
I declined despite I knew that there would be a special guest.
So there was my friend (the driver), a mutual friend of ours - and the guest; a man friend of the driver, who (she made clear) was very single.
Despite my cat-like curiosity I stayed home and today messaged her about how it went.
The guest didn't go - after I was going she told him not to bother. OK definitely a set up situation.
I wasn't up to coyness so I asked who he was. She told me.
Now I've never met him personally and there was a reason why:
Not only is he an ex of the setter-upper-er, he's a douche (took her on dangerous car rides (go figure)) and a complete bogan/country arse.
She tried to set me up with him!?
Not only was a receiving her leftovers but she knew what he was like and that we would be TOTALLY wrong for each other in absolutely every way.
I think there's something more going on here - there's no way she though we would actually date or that I would even consider him - it just wouldn't happen.
I'm now starting to doubt her motives.
Like some screwed over, retired spy - urgh. there's something wrong with me.
I always thought being set up by a friend would be exciting, fun and he'd be my perfect match. But this was wrong on so many levels.
I'm super glad I didn't go on last nights drive; I hate to think how I would have taken it at the time (over the computer was bad enough).
She's not one of my favourite friends - she's full of drama and melodramas over everything. She only hangs out with me and a guy friend of ours. Our other friends are smart enough to keep their distance - maybe I should do the same.
Thank God I have Uni to distract me.
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